Great Conversation Starters

by Dean Cortez

So you spot an absolutely beautiful woman. Maybe you’re in a bar or nightclub — or perhaps you’re just out for a stroll. You’d love to introduce yourself and get her name. Hopefully her phone number. You’re thinking to yourself, you’d be the happiest guy on earth if you had a babe like HER for a girlfriend…

Well, this is when the average guy shuts down and freezes up. He tells himself he shouldn’t approach her, for any number of reasons: “She’d probably blow me off.” “She looks like she doesn’t want to be bothered” Or, “A girl that hot MUST have a boyfriend.”
But most of all, he’s thinking, “what would I say to her??”

The guy has no idea how to start the conversation, and so rather than introducing himself, he allows the opportunity to pass him by. Chances are, he will never see that woman again.
In the Mack Tactics program, you’ll learn a variety of great conversation starters that will allow you to easily “break the ice” with women. Then, after using the right ice breaker, you’ll know exactly how to GUIDE and MANAGE the conversation so that you engage her interest and stimulate her imagination.

She won’t get the sense that you’re just another over-eager guy trying to hit on her. Those “red flags” will never go off in her mind, because every step of the way, you are guiding the conversation into interesting, thought-provoking areas. You’ll prompt her to share details about herself that she wouldn’t normally share with a stranger. She’ll feel a strong sense of comfort and rapport with you. She’ll think that you really “get” her and have an amazing number of things in common with her.

But it all begins with great conversation starters. Here are some examples:

Great Conversation Starters, example #1:

Ask her opinion on a romantic situation involving a friend of yours. (Women love to chat about this stuff.) Say something like, “Let me get your opinion on something real quick. My best friend John has been dating a girl, and she was at his place last night. She asked to borrow his cell phone, because her phone’s battery was dead, and she wound up checking through his text messages when he wasn’t looking. She saw a text message on there from John’s ex-girlfriend — just a friendly text, saying ‘hey, what’s up.’ And she got really mad at John because she doesn’t want him staying in touch with his ex. Well, John was upset because she felt she had no right to check his messages. So do you think that’s an invasion of privacy? Honestly, would you ever check the messages on your boyfriend’s phone?”

Great Conversation Starters, example #2:

Pay her a quick compliment on an aspect of her appearance that most guys would NOT notice. Never tell her she’s beautiful, or comment on her body — notice a detail like her purse, her jeans, her necklace, a ring, etc. Tell her you think it’s cool. Ask her where she got it. Tell her that you need to shop for a birthday gift for a female friend of yours, and you think that might be a good gift.

Great Conversation Starters, example #3:

Tell her she has a great energy: “I just had to tell you, you have this great energy about you. You seem like a really fun, outgoing person who doesn’t take herself too seriously, am I right?”
Notice that when using a great conversation starter, you DON’T ask permission to start talking to her. Don’t ask her, “Do you mind if I ask you something?” Or, “Can I talk to you for a minute?” This will cause her to go into “defensive” mode and she’ll be suspicious of your intentions. Instead, use a great conversation starter and launch right into it.

Then, like a master chess player, you’ll be thinking a few moves ahead. The Mack Tactics program contains a very powerful section on Conversation Control that explains exactly how to capture her interest and make her feel comfort, and then attraction. You won’t linger on the topic of your friend John and his girlfriend, or where she bought her cool pair of shoes. After the great conversation starter, you’ll smoothly transition into the next topic, and keep things flowing in a fun, interesting direction.

For more great conversation starters and a complete set of tactics for meeting women, flirting with them, and building quick “bonds” that will lead to phone numbers and dates, join our VIP list below. We’ll send you a free copy of “The S.W.A.T. Guide” (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics,” which is jam-packed with conversation starters, attraction tips, and ways to build connections with women in any situation.

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez