How To Ask A Girl Out

HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT

Hi Dean,

What is the most effective way to ask an attractive co-worker for her phone number and/or ask her out for a date, bearing in mind I have to see her every day? I get positive vibes fom her and we’ve worked in the same bank for several months, but it’s hard to read her mind. I would appreciate your feedback.

Thanx,

Aaron

>>> DEAN CORTEZ RESPONDS:

Funny you should ask me this -- I recently noticed a smokin’ hot babe that works as a teller at my bank. (It’s challenging, however, to work my magic on her when she’s behind two inches of bulletproof glass.)

In fact, when I think about it, banks always seem to have one or two hot girls working there, and they always dress very well. (Maybe the next Mack Tactics book should include a chapter on "Advanced Bank Macking"...)

Anyway, my first piece of advice: don’t think about it as "asking her out on a date." When you "ask a woman out," and you frame it as a "date," you are losing points before you even start playing the game!

Reason #1: You are making your attraction to her obvious. You’re basically communicating to her, "I like you, and I’m hoping you will like me, too, so let me take you out and spend money on you in an attempt to show you I’m worthy of dating you."

Reason #2: If she turns you down for some reason -- even if she is honestly busy, or maybe she’s got a boyfriend -- then it’s going to make things awkward when you see her every day.

You both know that YOU ASKED HER OUT, and SHE SAID NO. And that sucks...

So, if you want to know how to ask a girl out, the solution is to use a Mack Tactic that I call "The Innocent Invite."

Invite her to COME ALONG WITH YOU to an activity that you are already "planning." The message you are sending is this: you’re a fun, cool guy with stuff going on, and here’s HER chance to come along and join you for an activity.

You were planning to do this thing ANYWAY (or, at least this is how it sounds), so if she CAN’T join you, it’s not like she is "rejecting" you.

There are many different types of "Innocent Invites" and special tactics I’ve got on how to ask a girl out, but here’s one of my favorites:

If she’s an attractive girl who works in a bank, I’m guessing that she dresses well, and has a nice sense of style. Use this to set up the invitation.

When you get an opportunity to chat with her, ask her if she has any fun plans for next weekend, and then say,

"I need to shop for a gift this weekend -- my buddy Mike’s birthday is in a few days. He’s a great guy but I really think he could use a fashion makeover -- he’s still wearing the same clothes he wore back in high school. So, I want to pick him up a really cool shirt, or a pair of jeans. Actually, I’d love to get your opinion on it -- why don’t you come with me to the mall, if you help me pick out something cool, lunch is on me. What’s better for you, Saturday or Sunday?"

(Notice, you’re presenting her with a "false choice": you’re not giving her the option to say "no," you’re asking her which day is better -- Saturday or Sunday?)

If she declines to go with you for some reason, it’s not a "rejection." You were going to the mall, anyway. You can always invite her somewhere else in the future. No worries.

NOTE: Complimenting a woman on her "sense of style" or "fashion sense" is always a winner. Attractive women put a lot of time and thought into their appearance. She will truly appreciate this thoughtful compliment, unlike when a bonehead tells her how "hot" or "beautiful" she is. (She hears that cheesy crap all the time.)

You could also invite her to come along with you to a bar or a cocktail lounge you’re "planning to check out." A night-time activity is cool, too. But inviting her to accompany you shopping, during the daytime, is a very safe strategy. And this type of date has a lot of side benefits:

- You’re walking around with her and being active, which burns off your nervous energy

- Going into various stores with her creates all kinds of cool conversational topics. Visit a store that sells CDs and DVDs, and talk about the kinds of movies/music that she’s into. What’s her favorite perfume? What’s her favorite cologne for men? Women will divulge all kinds of information about themselves when they’re shopping, and naturally, she’s going to feel comfortable and relaxed in this type of environment. Women were BORN to shop!

Bonus tip: go shopping with her in the late afternoon, around 4-5pm. The article of clothing that she helps you pick out for your buddy COULD be a gift that you give to a friend, or you’ll just keep it for yourself.

When you finish shopping, buy her a meal, and do it at a place that serves drinks. Since it’s now after 5pm, it’s cool for you to order some cocktails or a pitcher of margaritas, and now the two of you can kick back and have your "date" -- without it FEELING like a "date" to her.

She’ll just feel like she’s spending time with a fun, cool guy, and going with the flow...play it right, and this "daytime meet" could wind up lasting until morning!

For dozens of amazing conversational tactics and strategies to use with women, more tactics on how to ask a girl out, and tips on how to ESCALATE the situation towards romance and sex, be sure to join our free VIP coaching list and download your free book:

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Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

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How To Get A Girlfriend - 6 Quick Tips

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I’m going to serve up some tips to get a girlfriend, and some killer info on how to get a girlfriend...because a LOT of guys have questions on this, and I want to deliver some serious knowledge.

So here’s a letter from a student of mine, and my answer about "Avoiding the Friend Zone" -- because for a lot of guys, this is the MAIN CHALLENGE, when they want to know how to get a girlfriend.

* * * * *

Hi Dean. I love your programs and I’ve been amazed by your solutions for guys who want to know how to get a girlfriend.

Now I have a question for you, grand master... I was taking a class at night at my local university, and I met a very sexy woman who is older than I am (I am 26, and she is 35). We always talked after class, and we met a few times at the campus library to study together.

I was growing to really like her, but it was hard to understand what she wanted. Sometimes she acted very flirty towards me, and other times she acted cold and distant.

She would sometimes call me twice a day to chat, and then she would stop calling me and wouldn’t return my calls for a few days.

I asked her many times to go on a date with me. Once, she agreed to meet me for lunch, but then she called me at the last minute and cancelled.

Our class ended three weeks ago. Now she will not answer my phone calls but we communicate with text messages. She confessed to me that she is still hurting from breaking up with her ex-boyfriend John.

She says she loves me as a friend and our friendship is very important to her, but she isn’t ready for another serious relationship. When I try to get her to meet me, she always has an excuse.

I know she cares about me and if she just wants to be friends, that’s okay. But I need to know if I have a chance of making her my girlfriend.

I hope you have some special Mack Tactics for me!

- Adrian, Vancouver CA

* * * * *

>>>MY RESPONSE:

You, my friend, have wound up in the Friend Zone. This is a common situation with men who want to know how to get a girlfriend.

They’re not sure how, so they try to follow the “normal” rules with women. (In other words, being nice, sweet, respectful, and following her lead...and being a WUSSY. )

But let’s be honest. Is any guy EVER satisfied having a female “friend” to talk to, when what he really wants from her is sex?

No, of course not.

And it’s only a matter of time before she meets some other guy who DOES make her feel sexually attracted, and once they start hooking up she’ll no longer have any need to hang out with you.

So let me give you my Top 6 tips for busting out of the Friend Zone and getting women sexually interested in you...

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #1:

Limit your availability. This is one of my biggest tips to get a girlfriend. I’m willing to bet that whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the phone and chat with her for as long as she wants...

You may THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth grade, you’re building some kind of deep “connection” with her.

But what you’re actually doing is removing ANY sense of mystery about yourself, letting her know that you have nothing else going in your life... and no other women.

This is massively UN-attractive to her!

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #2:

Until you’ve slept with a woman, limit your phone chats with her to five minutes. And don’t get caught up in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you’re a busy man with places to be.

Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock down your plans to see her again. Save the deep conversations for when you are actually spending time with her.

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #3:

Women are moody and emotional. Get used to it, and know how to deal with it. When she start acting weird or distant, she is testing you. She wants to see how you will respond.

Do you kiss her ass and ask her “what’s wrong?” Do you get frustrated and angered by her behavior? (Either of these responses will only make her get more moody!) Or, do you behave like a firm, direct MAN?

(Tell her, “Well, I can tell you’ve got some things on your mind right now, so why don’t you take some time to sort it out and get back to me. I’ve got some things I need to handle right now.”)

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #4:

Women commonly use the excuse, “I got out of a bad relationship recently, I don’t know if I’m ready for someone new, I don’t want to get hurt again,” etc. It’s all crap, basically. The truth is, if she met a confident, attractive man RIGHT NOW who made her feel a sexual connection, she’d forget about her ex-boyfriend in about 2.3 seconds.

If she starts talking about her ex, and how she’s “not ready,” what she really means is that you’re not making her feel attraction, and so she’s testing you to see what kind of man you are.

You need to put her in a positive, fun state of mind and keep her there. When she thinks of you, she should think of fun times and feeling good about herself.

The last thing you want to do is allow her to dwell on her ex-boyfriend and be her “shoulder to cry on.” If she ever mentions him, change the subject.

And never refer to him by name because it only aggravates her emotional state. (Instead, refer to him as “that guy.” Make him seem irrelevant and insignificant.)

HER: “I guess I’m just in a bad mood today because it would have been my third anniversary with my ex, John...”

YOU: “Well it sounds like that guy didn’t appreciate you the way he should have, and it’s his loss. I’m just glad we’re getting to know each other, because I can tell there’s a lot more to you than meets the eye. So tell me more about...”

(Change the subject onto something that gets her in a positive, talkative mood).

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #5:

Never confess your attraction to her. Women interpret this as a sign of weakness. You’ve been taught by the media that woman want a soft, sensitive guy who isn’t afraid to confess his feelings.

Actually, the opposite is true. She needs to know you are a strong, emotionally secure and confident MAN. Once you’ve got a sexual relationship going with her, and she’s bonded to you, feel free to be a sweet, loving boyfriend and do all of the romantic things that drive her wild.

But until then, you’ve got to play it cool.

How to get a girlfriend, Tip #6:

Finally, be willing to “man up” and walk away if you need to. If for whatever reason she just can’t sort out her feelings, cut her loose.

Trust me, if you were involved with two or three OTHER women right now, you wouldn’t have the time or the interest to play games with some chick who can’t make up her mind.

When you have multiple options, you will ALWAYS feel confident and in control. Don’t make the mistake that most guys make, and place “all of your eggs in one basket.”

Once a woman has mentally placed you in “The Friend Zone,” it’s difficult to change her feelings towards you. Ideally, you never want to her to view you as her platonic, non-sexual “buddy” in the first place.

This is why when you do meet up with women for a date, you’ve got to take things in a sexual direction. This doesn’t mean you have to sleep with women on the first date. But you MUST establish some physical contact and make her feel that you’re a sexual possibility for her.

That’s the difference between guys who always suffer in the “Friend Zone,” and guys who GET IT DONE.

The BEST program ever assembled, for taking your confidence and skills with women to a rock star level, is here:

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Talk to you soon --

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez Creator

How To Date Strippers - Dating Younger Women

by Dean Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics Bad Boy Seduction system

>>> Question From Dirk, Chicago

Dear Dean,

I’m in love with a stripper. Yeah, I know, I’m probably asking for trouble (and a depleted bank account). Seriously though, she’s a really cool chick. The problem is, she’s got another guy in her life that she can’t shake.

They dated for years, broke up a bunch of times, got back
together, broke up “for good” when she busted him sleeping with her best friend... and now, while I’m trying to get something going with her, I suspect she might still be seeing him on the side.

I’m a good guy. I treat women with respect. But this keeps
happening to me. The girls I dig always seem to have a thing
for creeps.

>>> My Comments:

This is a question we get all the time. What is it about “jerks”
and “creeps” that hot women find so alluring? With so many nice guys out there willing to treat them like princesses, why do they get so deeply attached to “bad boys?”

What you need to understand is, women aren’t attracted to the fact that these men are self-centered or arrogant. They’re
attracted, on an deep subconscious level, to certain BEHAVIORIAL traits that bad boys exhibit.

Here are the big three:

Bad Boys are independent.

They lead their own lives and fit women into their schedule,
not the other way around. Women, by nature, want what they can’t have—and bad boys present a challenge and sense of mystery.

Bad Boys are decisive.

They’re never wishy-washy. Women love a man who isn’t afraid to lead; a leader who confronts situations is a man who is capable of fulfilling the most core female need, which is to
feel protected.

You’ll never hear a bad boy say, “So do you want to hang out sometime?” Or, “what do you feel like doing tonight?”

Bad boys are men on the move. They’ve always got plans
in motion. And women want to go along for the ride.

Next...

Bad boys don’t wear their emotions on their sleeve.

Aristotle, a mack among ancient Greek philosophers, once
said: “He who confesses first, loses.” Pouring out your
feelings to a girl might seem like a sweet romantic gesture,
but in reality it usually blows you out of the water.

When a girl hasn’t made up her mind about you, and you make it clear you’re totally into her, you seem needy and you’re no longer a challenge.

Bad boys keep women guessing: is he really into me, or is he playing games? How many other girls does he have in his life right now? This triggers the female competitive instinct and makes them want a guy that much more.

Guys who are extremely popular with women tend to essentially be nice guys with a “bad boy edge” to
their personality.

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>>> Question From KJ

Hi Dean,

I asked a girl out recently and she told me she wasn’t ready
to date anyone new. She explained that her ex, Tony, was a
psycho and she had to get a restraining order on him. How
can I convince her I’m nothing like Tony?

>>> My Comments:

First off, you just mentioned the dude’s name twice in one
paragraph. Which means you’ve probably had conversations
with her about "Tony," and why she deserves better than "Tony," and so on...

Never refer to her ex by name! This is a rule. Refer to him as
“that guy” or "that dude." This dimishes his significance.
Saying his name out loud, when talking about him with her,
triggers emotions and memories.

While you never want to get into extended discussions with
women about their ex-boyfriends -- you want to keep things
focused on the present, and on you and her -- knowing the types of guys she’s dated in the past can provide valuable Intell.

This is especially true when she dated a wack dude, since you can now present yourself as the opposite of him.

There are three main categories of wack ex-boyfriends:

1 - The Stalker.

When the relationship ended, this pathetic head case couldn’t
let go. When macking a girl who had a stalker ex, you must
present yourself as the “anti stalker.” Be extra careful
about saying or doing anything that show “clinginess.”

Don’t accompany her everywhere. If you call her to chat, she
should be the one calling you next time. When she calls you
to invite you out, don’t always accept the invite. Try saying,
“I’m just going to chill tonight. You go ahead and have a
girl’s night out. Have a great time. Call me tomorrow and
let me know how it went.”

Make it a habit to give her space and let her know you’ve got other things going on in your life—unlike the stalker, whose
entire world revolved around her.

2 - The Loser.

Her ex was broke, couldn’t hold a job, or simply had no ambitions or direction in life. Become the opposite in her eyes by mentioning things, or goals in your life that you are
passionate about. Women are turned on by passionate men.
It’s a quality that losers lack.

3 - The Commitaphobe.

This guy refused to commit to her. Maybe he dumped her at the altar; maybe he was never willing to be monogamous. With this type of girl, demonstrate how important commitment is to you.

Use the word. Don’t say “I’d love to have my own business
someday.” Say, “I’m very commited to launching my own business soon.” Don’t say, “I’m close with my family.” Say, “I’m really committed to my family. They’ve always been there for me, and I’m always there for them.” A guy who values commitment is a guy she can imagine being commited to her.

Also, no matter how much of a jackass her ex-boyfriend sounds like, refrain from making disaparaging comments about him.

Remember, at one point in time she had serious feelings for him. Dissing him is basically the same as dissing her, and her
judgement. Instead, make him seem irrelevant and not even
worth discussing. “It sounds like that guy didn’t appreciate
all the great things I’m seeing in you.”

Then move the conversation onto a more pleasant topic. Keep things focused on the present and on future possibilities. “That guy” is boring, irrelevant, ancient history.

A final notes on exes: whenever the topic comes up, women
are invariably going to ask you about your romantic past
and “what happened” between you and your ex. This is a
minefield you do not want to stumble into.

No matter how it ended between you and your ex, your explanation is probably going to make you look bad. If she was a nutcase, then it makes you look like you’ve got terrible taste in women.

If she dumped you, it makes you look lame. And if you broke up with her, for whatever reason, it makes you look callous.

Just give a vague answer about your past relationship and
reinforce in her mind that you’re both unattached now—and
that the future is wide open. “We had a lot of good times
together, but in the end, it just wasn’t meant to be.

I think it’s a good thing that you and me are both single
now, and back on the scene.”

Now, move the conversation onto a fun topic that leaves
the exes in the past—where they belong.

...are you with me here?

Right now you’re probably thinking to yourself:

"Wow, that’s interesting. I sure wish there was a resource
available that could show me hundreds of great ideas like
that... so I could know exactly what to do from when I first
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And before I forget, if you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or
even beyond, and you want to hook up with hot young women, have you ever felt any of these before?:

- "I don’t know how to talk to younger women..."

- "I want younger women, but I’m afraid I’d feel bad about
myself if I went after them..."

- "I’m afraid I’d seem creepy, or immature if I went after
younger women," and...

- "I don’t want to look like a fool, or be laughed at."

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Talk to you again soon.

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

The Bad Boy Seduction King

How To Get Girls - 3 Easy Secrets

How To Get Girls - 3 Easy Secrets by Dean Cortez

Creator of Mack Tactics, the How To Get Girls dating program for men

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If you’re like most guys, women seem like a mystery at times, and you’d LOVE to know how to "crack the code" and make them feel irresistibly DRAWN towards you -- instead of having to spend a lot of time, energy, and money trying to pursue them and figure them out.

Women are actually NOT the mystery that most guys think they are. They instinctually respond to certain types of men, and I’m NOT talking about guys who look like Calvin Klein underwear models, or have a lot of cash.

I’m talking about guys who know how to TEASE and CHALLENGE women.

If you want to know how to get girls on a new level, start with these three tips:

1. Stop making your interest obvious. Women are turned on by a man who is a CHALLENGE. (When she CAN’T have something, she wants it that much more -- this is basic human psychology.)

You’ve got to start applying this principle if you’re going to learn how to get girls. The problem with most guys is that they make their interest known IMMEDIATELY. For example, they’ll learn some "opener" or pickup lines from a pickup artist book, or website, and they’ll rely on this when they approach women.

It doesn’t matter how funny or clever these pickup lines are. You’re shooting yourself in the foot, because you’re making it OBVIOUS right away that you are pursuing her, and SHE is the prize that you are trying to win. (Why ELSE would you use a pickup line, right?)

This is when she lumps you in with the previous 47 lame, unoriginal guys who tried to talk to her. The minute those guys opened their mouths, she KNEW they were hoping to get her phone number or have sex with her, and she tuned out.

Therefore, you’ve got to frame yourself as a CHALLENGE.

Never act impressed by her. Never behave as if you’re trying to measure up to HER standards. Don’t compliment her on how good she looks. Don’t offer to buy her a drink right away. Don’t talk about yourself in an attempt to show her you are WORTHY of her.

2. Know how to call a girl. The Mack Tactics book contains an "automatic" technique for how to get a girls phone number, and when you call her, you’ve got to use the correct strategy.

This phone call should not last more than five minutes. The purpose is for you to lay out a PLAN to see her again.

"So Cindy, you mentioned that you get off work at 5pm on Friday. I’m planning to visit this lounge that I hear is the coolest new spot in town. Great drinks, cool music...I know you’ll love this place. I can swing by and pick you up at 8 o’clock."

(She agrees, and then you tell her you’ve got to run and handle some things, and you’ll see her on Thursday. Don’t linger on the phone and get into a long chat...you’re a BUSY GUY with places to be, and people to see.)

3. Stop dating women in the "conventional" way. Don’t take her to the movies. (How are you supposed to build her attraction to you, while sitting next to her in the dark for two hours, and saying nothing?!) Don’t take her out to an expensive dinner. (Not on the first date, anyway.) And NEVER show up at her front door with flowers!

When you take women on an "ordinary" date, she knows you’re into her, and that you’re HOPING to get something from her.

One of my biggest tips on how to get girls is to have three or four special "date spots" where you bring women. These are cool, comfortable, "off the radar" places that you can INTRODUCE her to.

(This makes a cool impression on her; you are a hip guy who knows cool, interesting places, and you are bringing her into YOUR world. It could be a funky little coffee shop that serves an amazing dessert... a hole-in-the-wall Mexican restaurant that has a fun vibe and the BEST margaritas in town...

Seek out these places, get to know the staff (so that they welcome you when you show up with a date), and make these your "date spots."

Then, use the comfort-building techniques, attraction tips, and strategies on how to talk to girls that are all laid out in the Mack Tactics book.

For 101 attraction tips and tips to get a girlfriend, just click here and download your FREE book:

http://www.macktactics.com

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

How To Get Girls - The Mack Tactics Method

Welcome to my blog. Here, you will learn from the world’s top dating coaches and seduction experts as they explain how to get girls and elevate your game to a "rock star" level.

You’ll also get exclusive tips from our explosive programs on Dating Younger Women, Dating Asian Women, and Bad Boy Seduction.

Stay tuned...it’s about to get VERY interesting here!

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

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